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How to Always Look Put Together: Clothing

Updated: Aug 24

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Welcome to Chapter III of my How to Look Put Together Guides, If you haven't read the previous chapters you can catch up here. Now that you've mastered Personal Care and Undergarments I'd like to introduce you to the most exciting part of the series: Clothing.

This site and these guides were born to combat the generalized misconception of "In order to look expensive you need to spend more". I think a little education is all you need to look your best.

In this chapter, I'll be sharing tips and lessons I learned while trying to curate a wardrobe that is refined, timeless, and looks expensive.

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01. Function First

How many absolutely stunning pairs of shoes do you own?

How many of them are comfortable?

Function is critical. Buying a pair of shoes only to display them in your closet because they're uncomfortable is dumb (There is no better word for it).

You didn't buy a pair of shoes you bought a trophy, a decoration that serves no other purpose but to display it.

And if that was the intent behind the purchase then great. But if you bought these to wear then what were you thinking?

It's ok though, I've been there and thankfully Poshmark exists so you can sell your lightly used unexplainable splurges.

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Moral of the story: Make sure that whatever it is you're buying or keeping in your wardrobe can get the job done.

This is not only applicable to shoes, you can apply it to anything really:

  • Buy Coats that will actually keep you warm.

  • Buy Shoes you can actually walk in.

  • Buy Dresses you can dance in.

At the end of the day, if you are comfortable you will undoubtedly look better.


02. Find your Colors and Stick to them

I wrote another series of posts on color theory (Catch up here). But, for now, let's begin by establishing a color palette for our wardrobe.


Having a color palette makes mixing and matching within your wardrobe EASY.


How do I know which colors look good on me?

While there are seasons, skin undertones, complexion, and hair to take into account for this, the simplest way to establish what colors you look best in is establishing your skin undertone, and while this is NOT the only thing you should be taking into consideration its a good place to start.

If you don't know your skin undertone find it here.

Let's use RED as an example:

which red to wear with your undertone cool or warm

If you have a cool undertone opt for cooler shades of red.

If you have a warm undertone opt for warmer shades of red.

This works for every color!


Take a look at my Spring-Summer color palette below:

my spring summer solor palette to always look elegant and expensive

Now take a look at how that color palette comes to life:


How do you Choose your Color Palette?

For now, let's look at what you already own so we can make the best use of the items you already have. Hopefully, you've already subconsciously created a color palette.

  1. I want you to open up your blinds and let that natural light in, pick out 6 items from your closet in colors that you absolutely love, and that complement you well.

  2. Fill in your colors below and draw out your color palette.

  3. Analyze them. Do these colors compliment each other well?

  4. If they do, then you have a color palette! If they don't try to find the color that doesn't go with the rest.

  5. Swap that color out for another color that does, continue until you have a color palette you love.

Fill in your Color Palette below!

How to determine your color palette
Fill in with your Color Palette

03. Want the Perfect Fit? Find a Good Tailor!

Get those essentials (jeans, pants, dresses, and jackets) tailored. Especially jeans, you can make a pair of $50 Levi's look like a pair of $250 Mother Denim with the right tailor.

As a petite and curvaceous woman, finding clothes that suit my body type has always been a struggle. So at 15 years old, I learned to hand-sew and make simple alterations to find the right fit.

So for the cheaper, everyday wear pieces, learn to hand sew yourself.

Taking in a little bit here and there isn't very hard to do and makes a $7 top look decent. If I could do it at 15 years old, you can do it now!

This is especially useful for those Forever21, Shein, and Romwe pieces.


04. Wrinkles are Unacceptable

how to always look put together wrinkle resistant fabrics

Nothing says "cheap" quite like wrinkled clothing. With so many ways to keep your clothing wrinkle-free, there really is NO excuse to wear a chewed up outfit.

I have even used my flat iron to iron out clothes in a pinch!

The easiest way to keep your wardrobe creaseless is steaming. Steaming is fast, easy, and takes up less space than a flat ironing board.

If you'd rather not iron:

opt for wrinkle-resistant fabrics. Like the ones pictured.

Wrinkle-resistant fabrics help you look put together and are perfect for travel, times when you're running late, or if you just don't want to iron... ever.


05. Fashion Tape is your Best Friend

What a gem this is, Fashion Tape is seriously my best friend.

  • Keeps slits on skirts and dresses from opening too much

  • Keep ruffles and collars in place

  • Secure your neckline and prevent wardrobe malfunctions

  • Quick-hem pants

  • Keeps a belt or a scarf in place

I really need to write a post on the many many ways I use fashion tape to take care of the little details that truly make an outfit flawless.

How to go monochromatic and look expensive

06. Go Monochromatic

One of the easiest ways to look more expensive, put-together, and absolutely stylish is to go monochromatic.

(Wearing one color head to toe.)

There are 2 ways to do this:

  • Same Color - Same Shade

  • Same Color - Different Saturation

If you go for the same color in different shades, make sure the shades are either all cool or all warm.


Check out my Elegant Monochromatic board on Pinterest for inspiration.


Easy swaps to elevate your wardrobe and look more expensive

07. Swap Soft for Structured

Structured pieces look more luxe and expensive than soft, flowy, unstructured clothing items.

A few easy and simple swaps to get you started:

  • Swap Cardigans for Blazers

  • Swap Hoodies for Bombers

  • Swap Graphic Tees for Structured Tees

  • Swap unstructured tops for structured bodysuits

Making a few simple swaps you can slowly but surely build a wardrobe that is both elegant and functional.


Check out 70 more super easy swaps to look more expensive here.


08. Plan Outfits Ahead of Time

This is a major time-saving hack, a clothing rack is honestly one of the best investments I have ever made in the pursuit of dressing better. I love songmics rack pictured here, it rolls smoothly and has an added shelf at the bottom so I can pre-plan shoes as well.

I use my clothing racks to pre-plan outfits for the week, for vacations or for weekends.

This is extremely valuable for those days when you just need to run out and don't have enough time to go through your closet and try on multiple pieces.

One of my clothing racks even folds for easy storage when I don't need it! Get it here.


09. Opt for Structured or Shapewear Basics

Shapewear you can actually wear out of the house? Where have these been all my life? How did I not know these existed until just a few years ago?

Now that's a time and money saver. Now when I buy basics I make sure they have silhouette-smoothing and/or structured properties.

While Meshki bodysuits and Skims are some of the most popular brands creating silhouette-smoothing clothing, there are actually more affordable brands available on Amazon.


Related: Where to get Quality Basics for every Budget


10. Learn How to Accentuate your Body

I'm petite so there have been many times in my life where I felt as if, my clothes were actually wearing me. So I learned to dress with my height in mind.

Dressing for your body is all about manipulating the lines we create with our bodies to highlight our assets and feel comfortable and confident.

If you haven't read it yet, my post: How to look Taller: Know your lines. It's the perfect intro to understanding how to elongate your silhouette.


11. Care for your Clothes

This has been a hard one to learn since I am not particularly fond of handwashing my laundry. The cashmere sweaters and knits I ruined when I was too lazy to care for them appropriately still haunt me.

In order for your clothes to look like a million bucks, you need to keep them in shape. It's as simple as laundering and storing them correctly.

  • Read the Label

  • Launder accordingly

  • Fold or Hang correctly

Shop my favorite products to keep my wardrobe in shape here.


12. Keep Embellishments at a Minimum

Keep it simple. There is nothing wrong with a little something extra but keeping it at a minimum doesn't let it take over your whole outfit.

For example: I love fringe, fringe is one of those embellishments that when done well can look 10x more expensive than it really is. BUT, I don't wear a head to toe fringe look because then I'll just look like a mop no matter how well done it is.

Don't let embellishments take over your outfits.

The timeless way to wear fringe:

Keep it Simple and Timeless so your wardrobe stays relevant and stands the test of time.


13. Incorporate trends Sparingly

Trends come and go, so never splurge on these. Incorporate them into your wardrobe, just be subtle with trends. There is a classy way to incorporate trends and its all about keeping it simple.

Make sure the trend is the star of the outfit by implementing it in a neutral color or trying a subdued version of the trend.

For example, these are subdued versions of the puff sleeve trend that are good long term investments:


These are overly-trendy, design-heavy versions of the puff sleeve trend that are terrible long-term investments:


14. Upgrade inexpensive clothing by switching out the buttons

By changing up the cheap plastic buttons on inexpensive shirts, jackets, and pants you can turn a cheap-looking item into a luxe look-alike.


15. Start investing in Luxe-Fabrics

Just because an item was made with luxe fabric does not meat that it will look timeless, elegant and expensive. Building up your wardrobe is an art, it takes time, patience and practice. When shopping for luxe fabrics like Cashmere, Wool, Silk, Leather and Linen take the time to find:

  • The right fit: these fabrics are harder and more costly to alter.

  • The right colors: buy these in colors that both complement you and fit in with your current wardrobe.

  • The right style: Are you minimal and elegant? Are you feminine and elegant?

Make sure you're not buying a studded biker leather jacket if this would not fit in with your personal style and aesthetic.

This is a style trap many people fall into when they find a good deal on a "luxury item" but then that good deal sits in your closet never to be used because it doesn't go with anything you own, or it isn't flattering or it just isn't you at all.

My favorite place to score these luxe fabrics is Everlane, in fact, I would say it's their specialty. My first cashmere and silk items came directly from Everlane and are absolutely stunning.

Structured necklines help you look more expensive

16. Keep your necklines Structured

One of the easiest ways to shop for expensive-looking clothing is to focus on necklines.

A long shirt can be tucked in and belted, but very little can be done to fix a neckline.

Make sure your necklines are structured. This means no off the shoulder, drooping on one side, or uneven stitching.

Focus on neat + clean necklines.


Read the Next Chapter in my How to Always Look Put Together series:

how to always look put together chapter 4

Related Reads:

How to Define Your Personal Style

How to be more Elegant


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